My ex and I went on a vacation with out friends...while we were out there, we started fooling around. I masturbated her untill she had an orgasm, and I never did, the whole point was so she wouldn't have to do anything back. I was really dry too, no pre-ejaculate or anything...anyway, after she had her orgasm, later we started again...and I wound up inside of her for a few moments with no protection, and I couldn't feel anything, really...so we stopped...but I'm still worried, and so is she...what are the chances of her getting pregnant?
Thanks alot >.> I'll still be worried till her period hits, but I needed to hear it from someone else. We got lost in it, but I'll be sure we don't do anything like that again. Or, at least I won't o.O
That same thing happened to me. My boyfriend wound up inside of me for about a minute... before I made him stop. I'm on the pill and had just started my period the day before, so I know my chances of pregnancy are slim to NONE, especially when i know he didnt ejaculate (i mean really, what guy can ejaculate after a minute or just pretty much sitting there and not moving??? haha) So I'm not too concerned.. The way I see it is... sperm can only live in the body for a max of 5 days. I just did get over my period yesterday and the sperm would have been dead by this morning. And there's no way I could have released an egg THAT fast when one had just fallen out and died.. plus I'm on the pill so that would have prevented it anyways.
I think basically this is just a case of paranoia. I think everyone makes mistakes and luckily enough for the two of us, we were smart enough to stop it before it went any further and something drastic happened. I think people just got caught up in the moment but are lucky enough to hopefully have a good head on their shoulders So dont worry.. I really think everything will be okay!!!
Sounds like you might be lucky, but I know I'm going to sound preachy, but let that be a lesson. Honest. I'm not trying to be an old turd. I've got a friend who had sex with her ex for her 25th birthday. It was a one time thing and she's got a 12 year old now.
Whatever happens to her, you're going to get off easier than she will. Pregnancy changes a woman's body, even if there's a miscarriage or an abortion.
You can't risk having unprotected sex with someone, unless you're willing to create a child. Particularly if it's an ex relationship. My friend's relationship with her son's father is barely civil at best.
I know sex is wonderful, but it's a biological mechanism for creating a new life. It's not something to be taken lightly.