Well i am 21 (i got pg. at 20) and my bf is 19 and im now 30 weeks pregnant and my parents HATE my boyfriend...and my sister started having kids at 17 and is now 23, with 4 kids and they expected me to learn from that and to not have kids til i was married so when i found out i was pg. i was terrified to tell them..and your parents are probably going to be angry at first, they might be for quite a while, but its a lot better to tell them than to wait..they are going to have to find out eventually. i was terrified to tell them, but you will feel relieved when you do...eventually, they will accept the fact that you are going to have a child..and its not about them now..its about what makes you happy..and if this guy makes you happy, then they should be happy for you...my parents still dont like my bf but they are excited now because it is their grandchild too and they accepted the fact that he is the father and is a big part of my life now. you should tell them as soon as you can..the sooner you tell them, the sooner they will accept that. like i said, they will probably be very upset for a while, but give them time and i know they will come around..i know girls who have gotten kicked out of their house for being pg. too young but all of their parents did come around eventually..and since he is the father, no one can keep him away from that child...that would be your decision..your parents cant keep him away..only you can..and if you could prove to the courts that he is an unfit father..but it sounds like you want him around, so dont worry about your family keeping him away..they cant....i hope all works out for you!
and congrats on the little one!