Re: i need an answer..coz i really want to know...thank you!!
Hi imafreak, a virgin is someone who hasn't had sexual intercourse yet and intercourse is a penis in a vagina. Since that hasn't happened yet, you're still a virgin. Your boyfriend should stop listening to his friends, they obviously have no idea what they're talking about.
There are lots of reasons why you wouldn't have bled the first time he fingered you (tampons? sports?) but they have nothing to do with you virginity. If you haven't had intercourse, you're a virgin, regardless of whether you bled or not.
btw, are you sure you want to be going out with someone who would dump you if you aren't a virgin?