please help, im so scared but i know i might be overreacting. 6 days ago me and my boyfriend were messing around and he rubbed his penis against my vagina for about 30-45 seconds. i know he didn't ***, and i dont think he pre-****** as he said it was kinda painful, not exciting. he did not penetrate either. im really scared. i think i was fertile during this time, i had my period july 5th, to the 10th or 11th, so could someone tell me if i was? it was on the 20th. I'm supposed to get my period in about 9 days, or somewhere around there. Today i noticed i had very watery clear discharge which i looked up and it said it could be pregnancy or your period about to start. I also think i have strep throat because my boyfriend had it and my troat has hurt today. Please help, i know im probably okay, but still. Thank you.
It is VERY unlikely, almost impossible, that you could get pregnant from the acitivity you describe. Active live sperm must be propelled or placed inside the vagina for pregnancy to occur. No one has EVER gotten pregnant from external contact with a penis or precum. Do not stress. The watery discharge means nothing at this point. Wait until your period is due. I bet it will come, unless you stress yourself out. Sera
well does it matter that i orgasmed? and that i was on top of him, not really rubbing the end, just the shaft. (sorry for being graphic) and my boobs kinda hurt. not alot, but when i grab them its alittle tender. But i think im imaginging things maybe. thank you so much.
No it does not matter. You cannot get pregnant from external contact with a penis (no matter how good it was). My boobs are tender if i grab them and i am certainly not pregnant. Sera
thank you so much sera. i meant like if i grab them gently they still hurt. and the watery discharge only went on for about 2 days. now im having normal discharge again, and not very much. i should get my period on the 5th of august. i think im pmsing because im getting angry and wanna rip everyones head off just like i always am. So thank you again.
No one can say if you were fertile around that time because we don't know your cycle length. If you are very regular then your cycle would be 28 days, making your most fertile day being the 14th day from the first day of your last period. But a normal cycle can range anywhere from 21 days to 34 days. Also, in order to get pregnant there would have to be penetration or at least ejaculation very closely to the vagina. So close that it's basically inside. Otherwise sperm don't live outside the body too long. I really wouldn't worry about it. You're probably getting your period. And even if you did orgasm, the only person who has to orgasm or at least have some type of pre ejaculation come out would be the guy.
now im really scared. my calves have been sore for about 2 days and i looked it up and its an early sign of pregnancy. im terrified now. it might be poor blood circulation, because i have notcied that my hands and feet fall asleep easily, and i bruise randomly. someone please reply, im terrified.
Did you also see the 101 other conditions that have sore/tired legs as a symptom? You cannot know from symptoms apart from the main one which is non-appearance of your period. You are no more pregnant than you were yesterday. Do not stress. Sera
If you have a 31 day cycle, then your ovulation day is probably the 16th day, which means it WAS the 20th of July. However, you aren't late yet. You are due August 3rd. There are home pregnancy tests you can take now that can tell you this early. I found out with my boys at 3 weeks and 4 days pregnant which is pretty early. With all that being said, I do not think you're pregnant and pains in your calves are not a sure-fire sign that you are. I normally get severe heartburn when I'm pregnant, even in the first few weeks of pregnancy. Last month I had it so bad I could've sworn that I was pregnant again. Turned out that I wasn't and I just happened to have bad heartburn that one morning. I wouldn't stress it so much. While it's not too early to have symptoms, it's unlikely that you're pregnant without having sexual intercourse.
thank you both. i think i will start my perios soon. my breasts stopped hurting last night which i read they get worse if pregnant. thank you again, you helped me calm down.
You're very welcome. And yes, breast soreness increases in pregnancy and I always believed and experienced mine to slow down right when I get my period but hurt me like crazy right before I get my period.
well another thing happened thats scaring me more. I got a cold sore today and sometimes i get them before my period, so i was thinking it would come soon. but when i went to the restroom alittle while ago i saw a tiny bit of brown blood, which im guessing is spotting. Now im terrified, could you spot before a period or what? thats never happened. also today and yesterday my **** was rubbed, but not fingered.
well another thing happened thats scaring me more. I got a cold sore today and sometimes i get them before my period, so i was thinking it would come soon. but when i went to the restroom alittle while ago i saw a tiny bit of brown blood, which im guessing is spotting. Now im terrified, could you spot before a period or what? thats never happened. also today and yesterday my **** was rubbed, but not fingered.
You can't get pregnant by someone rubbing you or fingering you even if there's sperm on their fingers. It's so rare that I don't even think it's ever happened. You can spot before your period begins, yes. It used to happen to me a lot. Our bodies change every 7 years so maybe your cycle is changing. If you think you're pregnant and you think the spotting is due to pregnancy, definitely take a home pregnancy test.
i think im gonna wait until my period is due because i still have a couple days im just nervous. I've never spotted so thats why its weird to me. so no one has ever gotten pregnant by rubbing with no penetration or ***?
also, the spotting had like strings of brown stuff. (sorry thats graphic)
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It's very rare. In order to become pregnant, pre ejaculation or full ejaculation has to be present. For that to happen, there should be intercourse. Sperm dies when air hits it.
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also, the spotting had like strings of brown stuff. (sorry thats graphic)
Brown stuff? Has your period ever started off brown in color or is it always pink or red? I know mine used to start off brown but that was because I had ovarian cysts. I am not saying you do but if your cycle keeps on like this and you are definitely not pregnant, it's something worth bringing to your doctor's attention.
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my period has never started like this, that i can remember. and it was only one spot when i got home and just a tiny tiny bit of brown discharge that i only saw when i wiped. I dont know if it implanation bleeding because i was looking it up and that said 6-10 after ovulating, and its been more. And sense my period should start soon maybe its just old blood from my last period.
It wouldn't be old blood from your last period because your last period was a while ago. It can't be ovulation spotting if you had already ovulated. It could be a cyst or it could be pre menstrual symptoms. Or, your body is under stress with worry about pregnancy right now that your period is trying to start but it's coming out little by little. Just try to relax and it should come.
