Re: is it normal...
HI, when I became preg. with our 2nd, MANY people were not happy because they were SO close together in age. I even had my husbands Grandmother call me and chew me out one day on the phone, telling me that this child was not going to be a blessing and the famous "why did you do it" Q. Of course this upset me, and made me sad, but I knew that she was wrong.
ALL children are blessing no matter what place you are in your life, even if you are not excited right now, it will come. Maybe that is why we are preg. for 9months, so we have that time to adjust and get excited. You are right to say that it does not matter what other people think or say, but I know it still hurts and bothers us. Try to keep your spirit up, because how you are emotionally effects the baby. We are here to listen if youwant to talk.
Tate almost 4
Charlotte 15 months
DH returning from OIF November 2006!