No offense, but I wouldnt take them. Not because I don't think it is inappropriate or anything. But, they don't understand, first of all....And, what if something is wrong at the appointment? I dont know...I am 6 wks and I am not telling my son until I am reasonably sure nothing is wrong - possibly after 12 wks. After that, I will take him (and my 4 y.o. step-son if he wants to go) to an ultrasound so they can actually SEE their baby brother or sister (prayin for another boy - we women are way too moody
So, that is my take. I took my son to the doc with me during my last pregnancy, and it was my last appointment, as I miscarried..... That was really hard on him as well, so I can't do that to him again.
GOOD LUCK!!! Let us know how it goes!!!!! WOOOHOOOOOO 4 U!!!!