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Old 08-05-2004, 05:10 AM   #1
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insecurties..

Am I the only who going thru it?...I know my man loves me and I love him so much. My hormones are going crazy and the fact we can't have sex is killing me....

I feel like I'm going to cry

 
Old 08-05-2004, 06:39 AM   #2
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Re: insecurties..

I know how you feel. I am just over 19 weeks and am not showing yet so I am still in that just looking chubby phase. Seems that the only thing that has gotten bigger is my butt. I had spotting early on and was advised against sex and although it has stopped the fear is still there (for both me and DH). And to top it off I have horrible dreams every night of all of my worst fears- plane crashes, loved ones dying and of course my hubby cheating on me. So I have out of control hormones, I don't feel that great about how I look and I am having dreams that remind me of all of the bad stuff that I could ever imagine- it is enough to drive anyone crazy! Just keep in mind that you love each other and talk to him about it too- if for nothing more than to tell him your insecurities. I hope you feel better soon!

 
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Old 08-05-2004, 07:10 AM   #3
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Re: insecurties..

hey girl..... i do know how you feel. DH and i can not have sex untill after my first appointment on the 10th, and then i have to get the ok, so it may be longer. i get so wierd about things. my DH always teases about he and his co-workers going 'Hooters' for lunch. he has never actually gone, but it's like a running joke between us. he said that he was going to 'Hooters' the other day and i lost it. poor guy, a funny joke between us got wrecked. i am suspecious of everything. you have to understand my DH is the most monogomous (sp?) person in the world, so my thoughts are all crazy based.

i am already growing out, they say your 2nd you show earlier, but this is silly. i have to imaging alot of it has to do with being bloated.

does anyone else get insecure about the health of the baby? i am always worring about birth defects. i worry about everything.
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Old 08-05-2004, 07:36 AM   #4
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Re: insecurties..

I understand how you feel, cee27. I guess you already knew that. I feel very insecure about my body. I am getting chubby and have stretch marks on my thighs. Three+ months is a long time without sex, but we made it.

 
Old 08-05-2004, 11:08 AM   #5
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Re: insecurties..

we might of had sex about 5 times since june, and last week the doctor told us not to have any sexual intercourse...so, it's been a rocky 2 months. I don't think we can sex until after the delivery+ and I'm only 14 weeks

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Old 08-05-2004, 11:50 AM   #6
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Re: insecurties..

I went for 9 months without when my husband was deployed. I got pregnant after a month of him being home.

I have now gone without for 6 months due to pregnancy complications. We are super close, intimate without sex, and are still very affectionate. Maybe it is just me but I really don't see what the big deal is about having to give up sex. especially if it is Doctors orders or could even remotely hurt the pregnancy.
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Old 08-05-2004, 01:16 PM   #7
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Re: insecurties..

with me is missing the closeness that comes from sex.. we're very affectionate people, but we do miss the closeness

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Old 08-05-2004, 01:41 PM   #8
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Re: insecurties..

why do you have to abstain from sex? is it from the spotting?

also cee, i wanted to ask you if you are showing yet? i feel like i am already, but i know it is just the bloating. still, my pants don't fit as well as they should.
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Old 08-05-2004, 01:45 PM   #9
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Re: insecurties..

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why do you have to abstain from sex? is it from the spotting?

also cee, i wanted to ask you if you are showing yet? i feel like i am already, but i know it is just the bloating. still, my pants don't fit as well as they should.
yes, it's from spotting..why are you? my stomach is getting a little big..outsiders my still not be able to tell...and my pants are getting a little toght around the belly

 
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