I suspect that I am pregnant, which was unplanned, and the thing is that I drink a lot - 3-4 days a week. I want to have the child if I am pregnant, but I am worried that I have already done irreparable damage, meaning fetal alcohol syndrome
Does anyone know if it is possible to find out now, or before I give birth, if any harm is done to the baby? Or would I just have to wait until it is born? I feel so bad, and don't know if I could live with myself if my baby had birth defects that I directly caused...thanks.