I am 17wks prego with my second and I have been feeling it move everyday now for a few weeks. I felt it's first movement around 12 wks and I can feel the kicks on the outside as of yesterday!
Hubby has yet to feel it though. I have some extra loose skin and fat on my tummy still from my first one so he may not be able to distinguish the movements as well as I can.
With my first I was 16 wks when I felt the first movements and 22 wks when my dh could finally feel them!