last night a while after having sex i had sharp stabbing pains in my lower uterus so i rang the midwife and they had me go over to the hospital i had a trace and baby was fine his heartrate was accelerating and deaccelerating well between 134 and 172 beats per min (first time i knew heart rate). they gave me the all clear but also took a swab of my cervix.
well i told the doc that when having sex i felt dh could not enter me well as my cervix felt low (tmi). when she used the speculum she said wow it is low it is right here like barely inside me. she never said if this meant anything and i never asked. my question is is it ok to have a low cervix at 30 weeks is this normal? what does this mean?
Also the pains i were having were like the ones i have been having in bed at night preventing me from turning over but worse. since they let me go home i have had these pains twice more. also my babys head is now engaged and i think him turning to this position may well be the cause of all my pains! how on earth i am going to carry this child for another 10 weeks is beyond me it is also bringing my mood down and making me weepy and putting me off ever having children ever again. meanwhile i keep dreaming my baby dies inside me which is not nice either. is anybody else in the same situation as me i feel so alone