I'm new to this one, I had 2 losses so far one was in April and the other was July 20th and now after I have talked to my ob. I want to try to have a baby again but I don't know if I'm ready. I know I want one but I'm so scared of having yet another loss. I know I'm young and I have time to have a kid its just my husband and I want to be young when we have them that when their running all around we can run right there with them and not have to worry about braking a bone or falling and not getting back up. I know it sounds weird but thats the way we look at it.
I will give you my story, on St.Patricks day I was bleeding so I thought I was on my period again for the 2nd time (happens every once in a while) but then it got worse I was going through super tampons every 1/2 hr so I asked my hubby to take me to the hospital, we found out we where going to have a baby but I needed to stay in bed just to be safe. We where both just thrilled thinking we where going to have a baby we bought books, thought of names, etc, but then the clotting was worse and bigger and the bleeding didn't stop. So lost that one, then June I didn't have my period so I took a test it was positive and then I also went to plan parenthood to double check and yep prago again. (we're doing good for not trying yet.) started to spot, went to my reg. dr. and she said it could be nothing she sent me in to do blood work and she said my hor. weren't that high so she sent me back and nothing, I had yet again lost what would of been my baby. For a while there and I still kind of am bitter to the people who don't want their babys and go pay someone to kill it. where people like a lot of us have a hard time keeping the baby!
Now I know I need to wait atleast 1month but what if I loose it? I know this sight is suposed to be for people that are pregnant but my question for all of you is how long untill you think we should try but not try to have a kid? since I really will never be over loosing a child unwillingly?
My clock is ticking and we both want kids soon. thoughts anyone??? please help.
im so sorry for your losses, and i understand how scared you are about trying for another, i had a missed m/c a few years ago but then went on to have a healthy baby girl who is now nearly 3 yr old, my hubby and i decided to add to our family early 2005 then after a yr of trying we finally fell preg in december, only to loose baby 6th of january, i am now 8 weeks and 4 days pregnant and the worry is still there i cant deny that but you just gotta have alot of hope
Mia-Louise jan '04
Jacob april '07