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Old 06-18-2008, 12:43 PM   #1
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This might be a little too much information and is a bit embarrassing too but I'm just curious as to whether or not anyone else is experiencing this. With my first pregnancy I didn't want anything to do with sex...I wasn't in the mood and when I would give in it was usually uncomfortable and we were lucky to finish but this time around is the complete opposite and lately I've even been having very intimate dreams of me and my husband and I wake up ready to go LOL! DH is loving it of course and I don't mind either, I just find it odd that my mood towards the who sex thing is totally different this time to the point of actually dreaming about it.

 
Old 06-18-2008, 01:14 PM   #2
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Re: Dreams

That's is not weird at all! I am actually the opposite though. I was like you are now the first time around, and this time I am not so into the idea. Sometimes I am, but definitely not as much. My DH is still hoping and waiting that it will kick in when I get into the third tri. Poor fellow.
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Old 06-18-2008, 02:13 PM   #3
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Re: Dreams

Hi ladies since you are on the subject of sex I thought I would ask some questions.2 different friends of mine told me that their OB's told them not to let their DH's finish inside them and also for them not to have an orgasim.Has anyone else been told this by their OB?Something about having an orgasim and causing premature labor.I was just wondering thats all.Thanks.

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Old 06-18-2008, 04:31 PM   #4
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Re: Dreams

My OB hasn't said anything to us about sex. I was told by the nurse it was fine up until labor just as long as it's comfortable to me.

On the subject of dreams I am so like you but my hubby isn't ever in the mood I swear I feel like I'm a porn star or something always wanting more. I go to sleep and dream like crazy and of course wake up ready for some fun.The only bad thing about my dreams is it might not always be DH in them it could just be some guy I seen in Wal-Mart but when I wake up it's DH that I'm wanting.

The first time around I was single and had not intrest in anything with a guy and I started dating DH and we did but I just wasn't into it. OH BOY not this time.

Have you notice when you do orgasm the way your uterus contracts it is so funny DH says I can't fake it now( like I do anyway).
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Old 06-18-2008, 06:58 PM   #5
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I'm so glad that I'm not the only one feeling like "a porn star," (LOL)! I haven't noticed the way my uterus contractions when having an orgasm but I'll have to pay closer attention and/or ask my dh if he notices any difference. I have noticed that I am a lot more sensitive down there and I feel a lot more than before.
As far as not letting him finish inside or not having an orgasm, my doctor hasn't said anything about it, other than as long as its comfortable and the pregnancy is normal there is nothing wrong with having sex. Orgasm and "finishing" were never discussed. I have heard though that at the end of the pregnancy that there is something in the semen that can help induce labor if other conditions are right. Maybe something to remember for later!
Have you guys been told any thing about oral sex while pregnant?

 
Old 06-18-2008, 08:27 PM   #6
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Re: Dreams

The only thing I have heard is not to let him blow air in you like forcefully not just normal breathing.
I am like you I am way more sensitive down there.
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Old 06-19-2008, 04:30 AM   #7
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Re: Dreams

In my pregnancy book it just states that it's not a good idea to have your partner "finish" inside of you because semen contains something that can cause your uterus to contract. I have noticed the contraction thing after orgasm. It's weird and sometimes uncomfortable. When I was pregnant the first time, it would contract so much that it looked like the baby was going way up towards my chest and curling up into a ball. I felt bad like she was freaked out and was trying to hide or something!
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