gotcha.... "relatively normal"..... it's all about perspective, isn't it??
if it's in the cards, go for it! i thought i was the luckiest mom in the world the day my first was born, and then i had my second and thought it just couldn't get any better.... now i have my third and i can't imagine being happy without her! it's amazing!!!
so here's the thing.... my bleeding is getting increasingly heavy as the day progresses, it's bright red, and now i'm having some lower back pain, mostly left sided....