I dont know if its hormones or what, but lately I dont want my hubby touching me. He thinks I dont love him anymore, but I dont think that's true at all. He is very affectionate, practically following me around every day after work, and its driving me nuts. Ive been so irritable and I just end up hurting his feelings. Then I get to feel guilty for the rest of the night. I just want him to go away every once in a while! Is that too much to ask? I mean, this is the same guy who at the beginning of my pregnancy, every time I went into the bathroom, he'd knock on the door and ask me if I was OK. lol. Im sure some of you have the opposite problem, but hes driving me up the wall.
Mine drives me crazy too when he is being too helpful. I just want to yell at him..even when he really didn't do anything wrong. I always feel bad afterwards. My hubby had to learn when I was coming unglued and to stay away. I mean right now my body really isn't mine...it works for the baby first..and sometimes I don't want to share it with my hubby too. Sometimes I want him all over me. He never knows which!! We actually have devised a simplest system. He stays away until I ask him to hold me or come talk to me. That way he has time to do his stuff and he can be available when I need him. Sometimes it seems like men never listen, huh? Ugg, but boy do we love them!!
Smile, life doesn't last that long.
I know where you are comming from. When I was preg with our older daughter, I could NOT STAND to be touched. BY ANYONE. My hubby (at the time boyfriend) thought I was having a fling (turns out it was mild stalking..) anyway.. I wanted to just FLIP out when he even tried to hold my hand. Luckily the first dr was SOOO wrong and it DID go away after the baby was born. (we seperated durring the preg. it was so bad) We have been married for 6 years now, and even have a second daughter.!!!! Hang in there, and keep the communication open!!!!