Re: anyone ever have a midwife? Need advice.
I never feel a great connection with my doctors, but I like them all the same. The one I have now, I love, but Im not CLOSE with her or anything. I just know she is doing a good job, and trust her or whoever else within her practice may be there to deliver my baby. With my first pregnancy, I saw a midwife, and was delivered by a doctor. It was a good experience. I just dont worry too much about it, I go with my gut, pick the person carefully (usually within a practice with a good reputation in our community) and reserve the right to switch if I dont like the doc or midwife. Ive never had any problems, either way. Good luck to you.