Re: I cant feel the kicks... is that bad?
New Momma: Sometimes (especially in the first 4-5mths), you aren't going to feel "kicks". It may feel a little more like gas bubbles. Or Imagine tapping your index finger on the outside of your belly really really lightly. That's more realistic. I wouldn't worry about not feeling anything yet. If this is your first one, you probably just don't realize that what your feeling is actually movement. They say that most women don't notice until 18-20 weeks, but again, that can vary according to the person.
It will be o.k. Good luck! -J