Re: Single and wanting to have a baby
I have a daughter who is almost 8 years old and since she was about 3 I have been dying to have another. I was a single mom till she was 4. But even after I got married I could hardly wait, but money was definately an issue. I have literally driven my husband crazy. But what i found to help with that urge to have something to love and take care of, and give you that unconditional love, was a pet. Yes a pet. Yes I already had one kid, but they grow up, it's just not the same as having a little sweet baby. I got a cat and she really helped alot, almost 2 years. But you know how cats can be, so I was just about to get a small dog, when we quit using b/c, and I found out I was pregnant.
Maybe a loving pet will help you get by a little longer before you make that big step toward an actual baby, and give you some more time to try and find mister right.
But if you do choose to go with a sperm bank, just remember that a baby at 28 years old doesn't rule out mister right, as by that age, alot women already have kids, and men are used to dating women who already have kids. Just be sure that who ever you date is willing to accept being a father towards your child if you stay together. He won't be just marrying you, but your baby too.