I don't have any children yet (I am due Oct 1), but I remember hearing something that Dr Laura said once. She said when her mom was expecting, they kept referring to the new-to-be born baby as it all being for her. Not our baby, but her sibling. And all the great things she could teach him/her, and that it was all for her, and how lucky she was, and how good she must have been for this to happen. Now, with 4 others, it may be tricky, and Gracie is older, but I thought I would share anyhow. It sounds like you have a great, loving household. Congratulations!!
I have learned that I can keep going long after I can't.