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Old 12-31-2010, 12:43 PM   #1
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Unhappy FREAKED OUT!! pregnant? Me? OMG...

Ok so needless to say I am pregnant, and in shock, well not total shock.. But still. So I have my son Johncody who is 2yrs 5mnths. His dad passed one month before he was born. So I met this guy when Joco was three months old. We've been together since. He told me he had a vasectomy, (which I found appealing since joco was a bc baby) and now I'm pregnant. ***..? Some sik joke.... But that is not exactly my main concern. My future husband an I have not exactly been sugar and honey we argue he thinks I cheat when I go to the bar with my friends and personally I think he is the most obnoxious SOB when he drinks, however I am loyal as a mutt to him. My problem is if he had a vasectomy and I'm pregnant how do I convince him these next nine. Months that it is his I mean it is possible right? Well obviously unless he lied about his vasectomy this child is his or I'm mother mary right? AHE
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 
Old 12-31-2010, 01:19 PM   #2
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Re: FREAKED OUT!! pregnant? Me? OMG...

Have him to go a urologist and give a semen specimen. It will show he has sperm present if you are pregnant.

 
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Old 01-02-2011, 12:10 AM   #3
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Re: FREAKED OUT!! pregnant? Me? OMG...

Yep...definitely agree with Hootielou(love that name!) and if he's too cheap to go to a urologist I'm sure he can find literature whether in a book or on the internet that confirms vasectomies aren't foolproof. I've had many male friends who's wife/significant other get a surprise bun in the oven within 2yrs of having a vasectomy. It happens! Nothing new under the sun. OAN:why be with someone who you cannot trust. Trust plays a major factor in relationships and marriage will suffer greatly without a solid foundation of it(you don't have to respond to that...it's just a rhetorical statement).

 
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