ok so heres the thing. I know at some stage im going to have sex for the first time. I've got someone special, we're been together for a long time. I've seen on porno's (which i know isn't much to go by!!) that watery liquid comes absolutely bursting out of their _____... I dunno what happens. I know we release eggs, i just dont konw what it looks like and what to expect. I want this first time to be special. So i dont want to get scared when i think something weird is happening. PLease help!!!
So you would like to know what sex is like for the first time??? You may want to try posting on the Womens Sexual Health Board. Also, I don't know about other ladies, but I've never had water come absolutely bursting out of my genitals!!!!!!!
EDD with baby #1 for hubby and I September 21st, 2003! It's A BOY!
I had sex for the first time with my husband when I was 17, I didnt physically enjoy it at all. It takes a new level of thinking to enjoy, I would deffinatley wait untill your pregnant. I wish I had waited untill we got married.It is really hard to have an orgasam buy intercourse since the clitorous isnt really being stimulated but an orgasam comes form spasams of muscles in sensitive areas. As for the stuff that came shooting out, girls do have a a fluid that is produced as a lubercant, Ive never had any shoot out of me but it comes out when you get turned on and still even when and after you have an orgasm.
Its still hard for me to have an orgasm by intercourse, its kind of uncomfortable and still hurts. The main thing I enjoy about it is that I love my husband and I love being close to him in every way. Sex is the closest way you can get to a boy physically.
First of all, how is she supposed to wait until shes pregnant to have sex for the first time?
And second of all, that last part of your post can be taken totally the wrong way. Dont tell a young girl that sex is the closest way to get to a boy...thats so wrong. Thats like saying the only way to keep a boy is to have sex with him!!!
And third, the first time isnt always pleasurable....but if you are with someone you are totally comforatable with and relaxed around, it should be a great experience. Dont regret losing your virginity to someone you dont even care about.....
As for the stuff that comes out, as the first person said, its not eggs, that IS the ovulation process that happens INSIDE your body. SOme women ejaculate, most dont...and thats the "stuff" that "shoots" out.
I suggest looking up some things on the internet about the female body....there are alot of informative sites. And you should definately know this stuff BEFORE you have sex. KNowing yourself can help it be a great experience for the both of you!!
lilnutty you are right........that must be a typo on daisy's part...i hope so anyways!!! man!
thatgirl....you should honestly read up on the female body and get more information before you do anything...at least that way you will know what is going on (and always remember to use protection!) your first time should be special and it should be with someone you really care about. a lot of people seem to have bad experiences but it doesn't have to be that way at all!
i just wanted to add that i had an EXCELLENT first experience. i have only ever been with one man....my husband... but i was 16 at the time and there was tons of foreplay and i wanted it and i enjoyed it! everyone has a different age when they feel ready....sure looking back at it sounds bad that i was only 16 but at that time in honestly thought i was sooo grown up and ready to make that decision.