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Old 06-27-2009, 11:14 PM   #1
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Did i get hurt and was it rape?

Im 15 and twp days ago i ended up havin sex with a 21 year old man, when he asked me how far i wanted to go i told him not all the way and he agreed but wehn we got into oral he threw a condom on and just kinda started. I didn't know what to do, i didn't say no and didn't try to push him off or anything,was it rape?

It's been two days and my vagina is still tender liker when i go to the bathroom or sit on a hard chair, it was my first time and i know it should hur but it hurt a lot and I can barly walk right now?

What should I do?

 
Old 06-28-2009, 05:56 AM   #2
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Re: Did i get hurt ans was it rape?

Depending on the laws where you live, it was at least statutory rape. The guy sounds like a real creep...

As for the pain, it shouldn't hurt that much. You might want to see a doctor.

 
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Old 06-28-2009, 02:11 PM   #3
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Re: Did i get hurt ans was it rape?

as thisby said in some states it would be considered stat. rape....so unless you report it as such and tell them that you didnt say no, thats all it could be


the pain is semi normal since it was your first time...im guess he was pretty rough on you...it has happened to me...i was sore for a few days then the pain went away...if you still have pain in a week you need to tell someone

 
Old 06-28-2009, 02:34 PM   #4
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Re: Did i get hurt and was it rape?

Definitely goto the police.

 
Old 07-04-2009, 02:52 PM   #5
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Re: Did i get hurt and was it rape?

Was it rape? Yeah, it was.
No consent was given. That and the age factor combined.
After reading that i'd suggest you talk to the police.

 
Old 07-04-2009, 03:07 PM   #6
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Re: Did i get hurt and was it rape?

Please talk to your parents about this or a trusted adult to help you with this. Yes you have been raped. Your soreness will go away/heal so you don't have to worry about that part however you really do need to talk to someone that can help you with this issue. Take care of yourself.

 
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