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Old 06-16-2002, 10:23 PM   #1
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Rape Or Not! That Is The Question

Hey... Is it considered "rape" if a guy forces you to give him oral sex?

 
Old 06-16-2002, 11:29 PM   #2
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Re: Rape Or Not! That Is The Question

how exactly do you get forced into oral sex? he forces your mouth open?

just bite down real hard, that oughta put an end to that.

but as for your question, unless he had a weapon--not likely

 
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Old 06-17-2002, 12:42 AM   #3
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Re: Rape Or Not! That Is The Question

i think forced sex is rape. You should tell somone. get help.
walk in peace
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Old 06-17-2002, 04:01 AM   #4
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This would be classed as a sexual assualt I believe. You should definately tell somebody.

Take care.

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Old 06-17-2002, 08:22 AM   #5
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If you have to ask yourself if you were raped, then something seriously wrong happened.

Any sexual contact against your will is rape.

 
Old 06-17-2002, 11:21 AM   #6
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Re: Rape Or Not! That Is The Question

8 entries found for rape.
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rape[1,noun]rape[2,transitive verb]rape[3,noun]rape[4,noun]date rapegang raperapeseed oilstatutory rape

Main Entry: 2rape
Function: transitive verb
Inflected Form(s): raped; rap·ing
Etymology: Middle English, from Latin rapere
Date: 14th century
1 a archaic : to seize and take away by force


if you were forced to, you were raped of your own decision. you couldnt say no or whatever.. yes that is raped.. if you were forced to and yes there are ways to be forced to have oral sex... due the previous entry by someone else..

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Old 06-17-2002, 12:00 PM   #7
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Psikilla he doesn't have to have a weapon, threats of physical abuse can have the same effect.

Rape is all about consent. If she doesn't want it then it is rape. If she is not a state of mind that she can give consent that could be rape.

 
Old 06-19-2002, 03:27 PM   #8
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I saw a case where a man broke into a woman's home and analy and vaginally raped her. He also made her give him a blow job. She spit some of his ejaculation into a bag and this is the evidence that put him behind bars. No means no. If you feel you were violated, then you should talk to someone about it. You are the victim. You didn't do anything wrong, so you shouldn't feel punished.

 
Old 06-23-2002, 08:42 PM   #9
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The reason why i think it could be rape is because he did force my mouth open with his fingers. When i kept trying to stop, he would just push me down and wouldnt let me up. Things happened to fast, and i was so scared, that i didnt even think to bite him.

Thanks to anyone who replied. It answered my question

 
Old 06-23-2002, 10:03 PM   #10
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Well, don't dwell on what it was for now, just tell someone. That's the most important thing you can do. This guy needs to be dealt with so he won't do this again.

`J

 
Old 06-24-2002, 07:59 PM   #11
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Re: Rape Or Not! That Is The Question

Well it's said that a lot of things are "in the eye of the beholder". This is one of those things. So if you feel it is rape, it is rape.

 
Old 07-06-2002, 10:40 AM   #12
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Actually, I suspect he would be charged with aggravated sodomy. Other charges may be piled on as is the typical of the U.S. He may be charged with sexual assault and depending on your age, sexual mosestation as well as others. Here in the states they tend to throw the book at them as far as charges and hope at least one of them will stick.

 
Old 07-12-2002, 11:17 AM   #13
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What a ********. My goodness, get some official after that idiot. That's just so wrong in so many ways. And he's going to try that crap on other people. Nobody deserves that. I'm sorry to hear you have to put up with someone like that <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/frown.gif"> Tell someone pronto.

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