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Old 08-20-2011, 01:12 PM   #1
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I was rape several times in my life.Then i forget about this.But after 10years I begin remember this and fill sad,stress and mood swings.Some time when I have stress triggers stress I fill sad.When I have mood swings I fill not happy.What can I do for fill better?

 
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Old 08-22-2011, 04:58 AM   #2
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Re: My story

Hello nadialiu,

You are a survivor;first and foremost.Please do not lose sight of this.

A wise person once shared a story with me.

This person went on to explain all the trials and tribulations that entered into a particular person's life and through it all,that person found the strength to keep moving forward,while living life on life's terms.

Throughout the story,I experienced tears of both joy and sadness at times.

Upon completion of the story,I asked who this individual was,that painstakingly had to endure so much,yet persevered.

He told me to close my eyes and after a few moments,open them.

I did just that......

Lo and behold,a mirror was placed in front of me and the wise person was gone.

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Old 08-23-2011, 03:53 PM   #3
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Hi,thank you that you are said that i am first and foremost survivor.After this words I am geting stronger.I proud of myself that I am strong and survive and move on.Now I have wonderful family.I have husband and son.Now I write some letter to another rape survivor and call her foremost survivor and I ask her to be strong and move on.thank you for your strong and wise words to me.

 
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