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Old 06-05-2012, 01:35 PM   #1
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sexually abused years ago!

ok so years ago, i was sexually abused by a neghbour,

he moved away but still visits the area quite often, and he knows full well i told my best mate (i was scared i had to tell someone) and recently on a visit to this area, he saw me in the kitchen and was banging on my kitchen window telling me to get to the door now! n telling me he knows i had told someone! and made it clear that if he could ever get to me he'd still do what he said he would

My biggest regret was not telling the police, it angers me that i didn't, but as i was in my teens i knew the police would have to inform my parents! if they did that my dad would have killed the guy! and he would have ended up in prision and to be honest that would have hurt way more than just trying to ignore it and move on! but now i wish i had said something to the police! both parents dont know what happened still to this day, and i still worry about what might happen one day

only i cant go to the police now as its too long since it happened! i would have thought that i'd be over it by now! yet im not, and it still feels like it only happened yesterday does it ever get easier?!

 
Old 06-08-2012, 03:19 AM   #2
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Re: sexually abused years ago!

you are really a brave girl and smart too... i hope your face always have a big smile..

 
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Old 06-18-2012, 06:01 AM   #3
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Re: sexually abused years ago!

If he's threatening you, the police should know. You can tell them "years ago he sexually abused me and I never told anyone but my best friend. I was afraid. But now he's back and threatening me and I don't know what to do". They will look into it. They might put you through a lie detector to be sure you aren't lying. And if you're afraid of your parents getting upset because you didn't tell them before, tell them you were worried about your dad's reaction.

I'm sorry you're going through this but the police are there to help you. Good luck.

 
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