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Old 10-16-2012, 09:47 AM   #1
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What would you call this?

To preserve identities, we'll just call the person I'm with F.

F tries to come visit me as often as possible. Once a week to once every other week. It's not only for sex (though sometimes it feels like it). Multiple times (a handful...maybe 7-8) I haven't felt like it, and I've said I didn't want to do anything, but he always manages to convince/persuade me to have sex despite the fact that I said no and I don't want to.

I'm a really passive person (most of the time), and F knows it. He also knows that I am easily convinced to do things that I don't want to do. So what would you call this? Is it sexual assault? Rape? I guess reluctant/forced consent is a good phrase for it, but it's still wrong to me. I really just want to protect myself at this point.

 
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Old 10-16-2012, 03:28 PM   #2
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Re: What would you call this?

It is wrong but I wouldn't call it rape or assault as you agree to it. Coersion maybe is a better term. But then it still falls on you to be firm in your committment. Don't let him come over if you aren't going to be a willing participant. You have to take control of your life or many others will run over you about many other things in the future.

 
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