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Old 01-22-2013, 12:11 PM   #1
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I got raped 1 year ago it was so bad how it happend I blame myself beause I trust someone I didn't know he told he going take care with her pressed me to move in with him so I did he got me so drunk me burn me with a crrigette too and I have mark on my body for it I have scar on my rist from him I have nightmare and flash back the wrist part I couldn't say no beause I got drug and I know I said no I don't want have sex with him in the frist part but he didn't care but I'm clean I just don't know to cope with it I feel alone I had bf but it didn't work out for us at all I need advice on how to cope with it?

 
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Old 01-26-2013, 07:26 AM   #2
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Re: Need advice

Hello Portugy188 and welcome.

Please know that this wasn't your fault.
Your decision to have a relationship with him seemed to be based upon deception.

Any person who acts the way he does has issues himself and has the potential to not only harm an individual physically but also emotionally.

Have you considered attending therapy group or having individualized sessions?
There is nothing to be embarrassed about and it may be difficult to express the hurt that you felt on many different levels but hopefully in time,you will be able to.

We care about your well being here and are seriously hoping that you can move in a positive direction going forward.

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