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Old 06-02-2013, 10:33 AM   #1
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A new "friend" that I was only talking to as a friend had me over and we were watching Netflix. I was falling asleep so he turned it off. We continued a debate that started a few days ago but 20 mins in he shushes me and starts holding me. That turned into fondling until he just gets on top of me. I'm telling him I can't have sex but he keeps putting of what I say with like "we won't do anything." As he persists and it adva nced into sex I'm continually saying no and I'm crying all throughout. He does make comments like, "If you don't give me more tomorrow I might as well take it today." It's sex so I did moan loud while I was crying and and he would cover my mouth a few times. He kept telling me to be quiet when I said no. When he finished, he left to his other apartment and I slept in that one. The next morning I left not looking back at all. He called me and texted me asking if I were ok and he's sorry, he didn't want me to feel the way I do. So he didn't sound like he had bad intentions but I don't know.

Actually as I'm writing this post I'm probably answering my own question, I guess I just never thought it would happen to me...

 
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Old 06-02-2013, 03:54 PM   #2
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Re: Is It Really Rape??

Yes, it was rape. Call the authorities.

 
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Old 06-02-2013, 05:25 PM   #3
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Re: Is It Really Rape??

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.. . So he didn't sound like he had bad intentions but I don't know...
How could his intentions have been worse? Report him, but prepare to hear that you were begging for it, started it, etc etc. I am sorry this has happened to you. Sera

 
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Old 06-02-2013, 09:29 PM   #4
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Re: Is It Really Rape??

Years ago I was raped. I was so ashamed that I didn't report it. I saw the jerk a few weeks after and he asked me out on another date. I said no and he said well you wanted it. I said no I didn't and never talked to him again. How many other women has he raped? I looked on Megans Law and he isn't on it, but his son is!
I'm very sorry that happened to you. You also neeed to be checked for STD's.

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Old 06-03-2013, 08:26 PM   #5
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Re: Is It Really Rape??

This guy sounds like an awful piece of work. You need to somehow gather the courage to report him. Like has been previously posted, you should prepare yourself for any c**p he may come out with to make himself look innocent. Remember, he is NOT innocent. You are. You in NO way instigated this. Nor are you to blame. AT ALL. You said no. No means NO.

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