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Old 08-15-2013, 12:15 PM   #1
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I don't know if it was rape

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Old 08-15-2013, 01:56 PM   #2
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Re: I don't know if it was rape

you told him no on a number of occasions, I'd say he raped you
I hope you don't get pregnant from this, did you take the morning after pill? I would tell your mom what happened

 
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Re: I don't know if it was rape

he DID mean to do it because he had plenty of opportunities to stop when you said no! do not make excuses for him! please tell your mother what happened

 
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Old 08-16-2013, 08:48 PM   #4
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Re: I don't know if it was rape

It's very hard to decide whether or not it was rape. No physical violence was involved, and from your words you didn't insist too much on him leaving you alone. I'd say it wasn't rape as you didn't stop him on time, and he did apologize after with a quite credible story. Really hard to have a final say.

 
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Old 08-16-2013, 09:06 PM   #5
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Re: I don't know if it was rape

It's really hard to say whether or not it was rape. His story seemed quite credible and from what you said, you didn't insist too much on him stopping. You should've refused him touching you from the beginning. He apologized after, so I tend to believe he cared a little. I'd say it wasn't rape, but again, it's hard to have a final say.

 
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