The problem is guilt. You have been programmed by parents, school and church to believe that you could ruin your life by having sex before the age of consent. Foreplay and actual sex are two different things.
You have a psychological barrier to overcome. That barrier was given to you for your protection. I strongly suggest that you stick with foreplay before reach the point of no return.
But, since you probably won't listen to that, let's try something else. One of the main barriers that is driven into your head these days is the need for safe sex. If you weren't using a condom, shame on you. You are going to have to get some condoms and practice putting them on until you are used to the way it feel. Yes, that means you have to masturbate a few time until it feels natural to wear a condom.
Next you sit down and write this sentence one hundred times, "I'll will always have safe sex by using a condom." By writing that sentence one hundred time, you are reprograming your brain to see that a condom gives you the freedom to have sex without as much guilt. That should help you overcome your inhibitions.
One last thing. NO ORAL SEX. Wait till you are of consenting age at least. Oral sex spreads disease. Don't risk it at this time.
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