Hi Patty,
Good to meet you and glad the Holidays were good for you. Isn't it amazing how the most simple of lifes pleasures are GOD send when the pain is around!
I also have a friend that has the Fibromyalgia so I feel for you. Hers is a very mild case so it doesn't effect her like what you go through. Lupus is just a plain bummer like RSD and from the sounds of it, just as rare. Are there local support groups for Lupus like there is for RSD? That seamed to help me understand the RSD a bit more as it confirmed that I wasn't crazy. LOL
Yes thats a matter of opinion and if you asked the wife I'm sure she would have a different opinion
Take Care,
Ken