Hey dayton,
You need to tell your husband and your boss that making your life harder and giving your more stress is going to do more bad than good. RSD thrives on emotions and stress! Trust me! Tell them they are going to make it spread if they don't stop. That's what happened to me. I lived with 3 other girls, suppossedly my friends, and they it was awful. They wouldn't clean, for instance. I was hobbling around with my crutches cleaning our apartment and they would just be sitting on the couch watching me. Also, they wouldn't pay for anything. And because I couldn't work anymore I was spending money on them. My RSD spread throughout my leg within three months!!! That's fast!! All because I was sooo stressed out because of them. And I didn't have the guts to say anything. They did lots of other things to me as well, so one day I couldn't handle it. I told them that I had to move because I was in too much pain, I couldn't drive my car anymore and I have no money. Guess what they said. No you have to stay here with us until we leave. Which would be another two months. So I decided to stay. Then I told them again I couldn't, I HAD to leave. They again said no. So finally one day, I just packed up and left. I told them earlier that day when I had been at my parents house that I was moving out that day, and the first thing they said to me was "what about next months rent?" I couldn't believe it. But I couldn't take it anymore. One of the girls had been using my car for almost a year without helping me pay for it at all, and she was always short on rent and she never had any money for food or the bills. It was so stressfull I had to get out. I got the RSD because I had been so stressed out and it just fed on it.
So anyways dayton,
don't let yourself be in stressful situations. Make your husband read this, just so he'll know the danger he's putting his wife in. He's probably just so upset that he can't cure you or help you. My dad is that way. The only way for him to cope if for him to believe that I don't have RSD. He's just now coming around, and it's been a year. But we still fight like cats and dogs. My dad thinks I should go back to work. I should be walking everyday for miles upon miles. But I know he's just frustrated. As your husband probably is as well. Just talk to him.
Hope I've helped you a little with my lengthy story.
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