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Old 11-15-2002, 09:32 AM   #1
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i'm curious as to how another woman would react if her boyfriend had a attractive woman living upstairs from him and she knows the woman and he flirted prior to.

i have been possessive of boyfriends myself in the past of other women but i'm wondering what others think.

there is a woman in my complex who seems to see me as a rival up here in a loft apt.

my health has been affected to where i was on meds for nerves.
she has called me names and i can't move.



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Old 11-15-2002, 10:18 AM   #2
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So have you flirted with this other woman's boyfriend? I would probably be a bit upset if there was a woman that lived upstairs from my boyfriend and I knew that they flirted with each other. Stop flirting with him and then maybe she'll quit being so mean to you...it may also help you to get off of your nerve medicine.

 
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Old 11-15-2002, 10:25 AM   #3
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as far as i'm concerned i can be no longer be viewed as a rival to her, because the flirting was so long ago so i don't know what her problem is anymore.
also the 3 of us flirted together!
can't believe she would be this jealous if she wanted a 3 some.
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Old 11-15-2002, 11:20 AM   #4
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Are these the same people who you think are practicing voodoo and such?

Why don't you just leave them alone and forget about them and maybe they will do the same with you. You have posted all over the place about this couple and it seems that you are a bit obsessed with them. If they are a couple, then stay out of their business no matter what you may think they want from you. Make it clear that you are no longer interested in either of them and they'll probably leave you alone.

 
Old 11-15-2002, 11:54 AM   #5
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Also....When did this guy become your "boyfriend"? Like Lady^ said, you have been posting all over about these people and it's getting sort of pathetic, IMO!

Chill out...

 
Old 11-15-2002, 11:57 AM   #6
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yea the whole nine yds.and i think the obsession is more a "preoccupation" i don't need.
nor duz anyone.

to think that i may also have to move out is crazy too.

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Old 11-15-2002, 12:57 PM   #7
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Hmmmm, I think my original word "obsession" was the correct term. I've been cruising this board looking at all the posts on the various topics. You have posted about these people and this situation about a dozen times! Have you heard the of expression "Beating a dead horse"? That is what you're doing. I'm starting to wonder if these people even exist and if they do I wonder if they are really the strange ones in this story.

 
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I just have to say this:This Is a medical board,not lonly hearts,or anything else.Capich??

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Old 11-17-2002, 09:29 PM   #9
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if you are so SCARRREEEDDD then why have yopu said b4 you all 3 flirted together.that says you are into it also.if i was afraid of someone i wouldnt flirt with them.. every post i noticed you change your story a little bit.

 
Old 11-18-2002, 06:34 AM   #10
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My feelings exactly! The story changes with every post and none of it makes sense plus none of the story is the same as before. This IS a medical board and that said it seems like you need some help professionally to sort out what is going on in your life. Make an appointment with a mental health care provider and get the help you deserve.

 
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