Originally Posted by Leean
There's this guy I've known for a while now. He's always verbally attacking me and sometimes physically throwing me around ( ONLY around our close friends). Other times when he talks or we're alone he acts like he likes me too. He started it, but now we only communicate by instigating each other. But one day he told me he loved me. I believe him but now I don't know what to do.He has a few girlfriends too which is unsettling. There's alot of things I DON"T like about him but I know I feel "something". I can't bring myself to "say" much less "do" anything back. I can't stand him but I can't get him out of my mind. Is this love or what and what the heck should I do?
NO it is definitely not love.
Your his punching bag.
He's a show off in front of his friends and your the Center of his Joke.
He keeps you in line privately so publicly he can bully you in front of his or your friends. And making a laughing Stock out of you.
NO this is not Love
Don't know what is in your mind to think this is Normal.
NO, if he loved you, he wouldn't have other girlfriends and you would not be his JOKE or Punching Bag.
YES, you can get him out of your mind. Because you are not a JOKE to be messed with. You are NOT to be his Punching Bag...
He is a bully and do you really like bullies?
If you don't want to be the Center of His Joke and His Punching Bag then
you know what Needs to Be Done and What you Have to DO.