A guy that looks better then me,
Dresses better then me,
Talks more then me,
Dances better the me,
A guy that is CHEAP
Thinks he's tough
Wears more then *1* gold chain around his neck,
IS NEGATIVE about everything and everyone,
Acts Italian when he is NOT...
Give me a GUY who wears Levis w/workboots with a cute BUTT Can handle himself in any Social envirement, lights up a room, and when he needs to dress up in a suit...Can carry himself well! OH,,,yeah,,,,I got him but had to weed out all of the above!
If I can think of anymore I will add on....
Biggest turn off on a first date is when the guy is rude, obnoxious, insulting and/or dismissive to the waiter/salesclerk/ticket taker, taxi driver, etc. Also hate it when guys try to loudly and aggressively "negotiate" a better deal or a discount for something, for no apparent reason other than their own need to always pay less than full price for something. Funny: the loud, rude, obnoxious guy also always seems to be the deal-maker... hmmmm...
Hate it when people feel like they have to sell themselves really hard --- you're having first-date getting-to-know you chit-chat and you gradually notice that (according to them) everything they've ever done has been the best of the best, everything they've ever purchased has been top of the line, every vacation they've ever taken has been glamorous and exciting, every restaurant/bar/club they frequent is hip and trendy, every label they wear is notable, and of course, they know Everybody Who Is Worth Knowing. They drop all this into conversation self-consciously as if you're going to like them more because they are so fabulous, and as if you wouldn't have known if they hadn't made it a point to tell you. Eeeewwww.
Oh yeah: and guys who have nothing to say --- you ask a question and they answer in monosyllables and can't seem to come up with anything on their own to keep the conversation going. You start thinking to yourself, "why am I here, and when can I leave?"
LOL!!This is so funny, I met a guy for a first time and I was not physically attracted to him, he had good conversation so hey you know sometimes you figure maybe his personality may over rule his un-attractivenes, so we talked a lot on the phone, so I invite him over to see if I could feel anything, lol, he thought he was really in, te he, he had the nerve to ask me if I would wash his UNDERWEAR. Boy did I hurry up and come up with an excuse to get rid of his nasty butt, my phone ranged, and I pretended that it was my best friend reminding me that we were suppose to be celebrating her B-day and that I totally forgot about it, so I told him when we got done celebrating that I would call him that night. The reason I made it up was to save face, LOL then the next day I talked to him on the phone and I was not saving face anymore, it was so funny to me.
ooh, call me picky, but i have a lot of turn offs:
picking at their nose in front of me
not brushing their teeth
thinking they are god's gift to women
swearing too much
lying about their income
abusive to animals
abusive to humans
smelling ucky (like they haven't had a shower in a long long time)
pampering me when i'm ill (last night comes to mind)
listening when i talk
supporting the decisions i make
telling me i'm beautiful when i wake up in the morning
excepting me for who i am