I have a problem with my husband. He drives me crazy
I feel he is more like my teen-age son than a husband. He lets me take care of everything(I HAVE TO OR IT WILL NOT GET DONE, HE JUST DOESNT PAY ATTENTION) I have to be responsible for the children(HE YELLS ALOT IF THEY WHINE) and paying all of the bills. He does give me his paycheck, but complains if I don't always have money to give him.
After bills sometimes there isn't any left over. He runs up horrible expenses, that he says he will take care of but never does. And he is always sorry for the temper tantrums. MY PROBLEM IS I WANT US TO BE A FAMILY WITH TWO PARTNERS AND TO RESPECT MY HUSBAND AS A MAN. ANY SUGGESTIONS ON HOW TO MAKE HIM MATURE WITHOUT LOOSING THE FARM?