My boyfriend lives with three other guys, two of which were friends from before (not even best friends tho). One of them is his colleague and they work together often and they also go work out etc. Lately, I've noticed that this friend of his always calls him, tries to get my bf's attention a lot and so on. I know this friend too, but I dont appreciate his sense of humor so I dont prefer to be around him that much.
Today, my bf and I had an argument and he wanted to know what was bother me yadda yadda yadda... but he had to leave because he was going to meet up with this friend. He asked me to go with him so we can all hang out together, but with my moodiness, I was not up to it so I refused. I told him that I do not feel comfortable with this friend because of his jokes and stuff and my bf agreed that he had stupid jokes but "that's just how he is" and he even said "I dont know, he's just jealous cuz I spend so much time with you."
Is that strange? It is to me. I'm pretty sure this guy is not gay, and perhaps he just feels like his friend doesnt spend enough time with him, but the thing is, by the time my bf and this guy met, we were already dating, we ALWAYS spent time together like this. It's nothing new, my bf is not neglecting this friend more than usual or anything.
So why in the world is this guy acting like I'm competition to him? It is clear that he tries to get my bf's attention so naturally, I feel like I am challenged. Being that this guy is a guy makes this whole situation really strange to me but my bf seems to not see it.
Any comments or advice on this? Is this not out of the ordinary???