Originally Posted by anonymous08
I miss my ex bf very much and I want him back. u can read my previous post about my "emtional rollercoaster" to get the whole scoop, but what are some ways I could get him to want to hang out at least with me again. Summer starts in 2 weeks so I won't be seeing him everyday like I used to. He works a lot which makes things harder.
Oh, sweetie, I'm so sorry to hear you're going through this. I know how much it stinks to love someone who doesn't want to be with you anymore. You've heard the expression "if you love something let it go, if it comes back to you it was meant to be?" I think the best thing you can do this summer is get involved in your own life, finding your passion and spending time with your friends, maybe getting a nice summer job or doing some volunteer work, helping your folks around the house, taking swimming or dancng or aerobics classes at the local rec center. Spend some time rounding yourself out, getting to know yourself and taking a few steps closer to being who you will and want to be, and who knows, next time you see your ex you might say "ew, I wasted all those tears and all that energy on THAT??!!" You're young, enjoy it. I know you've probably heard that from your parents and teachers ad nauseum, but it's true. Enjoy being young. You'll be wishing you had your youth back soon enough, BELIEVE ME!! If you and your ex were meant to be, you'll find your way back to each other. If not, you'll find your way to something better. Believe in that. You've got your whole life for your dreams to come true.