Re: Need help in a bad way!
You say in your original post that you agreed to hang out the next night after you first hooked up. Did you agree on a set time, or was it "I'll call you sometime tomorrow?" If you agreed on a time and she blew off that time and didn't call until 10 p.m., then I'd say you had reason to be mad. If you agreed that she'd contact you sometime, it's possible she considers 10 pm early enough in the evening to call someone and still go out and do something. I think you may have jumped the gun by getting mad with her and hanging up on her and THEN wondering what the deald was. Usually, you find out what the deal is first, then if you have good reason, then never contact the person again. If she's really really beautiful and popular, she may have already moved on after you hung up on her. Really beautiful women don't put up with a lot of crud because they don't have to. I knew an extremely gorgeous, supermodel looking girl who was as sweet and fun, open, friendly and down to earth as could be, but you mess up once and she was gone. Why? Because she was beautiful enough to get any, and I mean ANY man she wanted. Every time she walked into a room, she had the undivided attention of every man in the place. She didn't play men by any means, she just didn't take any junk at all. If you're still truly interested in this girl, I suggest calling her up and first off apologize for losing your temper and hanging up on her. Then ask her if she'd still like to spend time with you. If you get shot down, you get shot down, that's love, but then at least you'll know.