Re: how to get over???
There is no over-reacting going on here. He is the one that lied to her and try to brush her off then he still went back to her to talk about your personal issues.
There is nothing wrong with having a close friend to get helpful advice or just to talk to but he did it in the wrong manor by going back to someone that really isn't that close. He should have gone to you first about his problems. If he still needed to talk to someone he could have gone to a closer friend rather than a girl that he is trying to get rid of.
Using the excuse he had noone to talk to is a lame excuse. Even if he didn't he still should have talk to you first and if he needed to vent more he never should have gone to her. If he had no one to talk to just have him sit in a chair in front of a mirrow and he could talk to himself. This would be much better than getting her into the picture.
You need to talk to him and find out what his fear is about talking to you. If he has one then you both will need to work on that so he can always come to you first.
Last edited by eightball61; 05-24-2004 at 04:33 PM.