Don't do it!!! Just kidding -- do something rational, don't go with your "feelings"... I'm probably being nosey, but you did post on this public board after all, but you could read it & post it & get our advice... I guess you choosing to respond would depend on what the email says... BE STRONG!!
Ok... I wouldn't write back b/c I'd be afraid I'd be caught up in him again. It takes some self control, but if you don't response and he STILL emails you -- read the next one & take it from there. I would let him email me a few times before I responded. Then go from there...
He's just asking how my work week is going - kinda lame.
You call it lame but you are sitting at your desk all week waiting for him to email you.
I think your healing process has begun because to a lot of people they would be excited just for a "hi". He is gone beyond that asking about you, and you call it lame.....You go girl....Keep it up..."Let the Healing come"
Yay!!! one hour -- wonder how many more to go?? just don't think about it... you could always say "sorry, i was sooo busy i couldn't respond" or "i went out to lunch with this new guy i work with" haha...
It is kind of disappointing, only b/c you don't really not what to expect to read and most of the time it might not be exactly what you *want* to read/hear from them!! It's almost like he's trying to make things un-awkward or something... Just let it sit, wait for a few more emails -- if you don't respond, curiousity will get the best of him.
By lame I just meant the contents of the email wasn't a big deal
It doesn't have to be a big deal...You have been waiting for this like a kid wanting to go to Disney Land.
He did it...He emailed you...So now take a deep breath and just respond to it. What can it hurt?? Is is still somewhat concerned and wants to know. He didn;t have to email you but he decided to.
You really need to find some closure to this though. The healing process take time and effort but you wont just let go. You may not admit it but deep down it sound like you want him back. He made his decision and now he is off. He has gone on with life and you need to do the same.
TOO FUNNY! The guy I was telling you abot (the "nonserious" guy) also just emailed me. I just got back from lunch and here's an email from him! Nothing major either. Just asking if we're on good terms now. I think I'm not gonna respond either. That's just really funny.
I know! I told you we're twins Anyway, I deleted my ex's email and cleared it from my deleted items box. Makes it MUCH easier to not respond when it's not there staring you in the face, ya know.
A least he did email her. You all told her not to do anything until he does email her and he finally did. What else is he suppose to say? I am not sticking up for him but he did ask how she was.
A least he did email her. You all told her not to do anything until he does email her and he finally did. What else is he suppose to say? I am not sticking up for him but he did ask how she was.
or maybe I am just not seeing it the right way
Oh my god, he EMAILED her! He deserves a medal!!! When he emails her AGAIN, he'll deserve to be elevated to sainthood! What's the Pope's address again?
How about just don't look at your emails for a few days. Why play games, If you want to get him back which is really what you want to do, then don't email him at all, pretend you are happy and you moved on. If you want to get over him, then take steps to move on, and don't look at your emails. If you keep playing this should I email back shouldn't I crap, its going to make this a lot harder on you, and much harder to move on. But you have heard this already. So just keep waiting for his emails all day every day.
How about just don't look at your emails for a few days. Why play games, If you want to get him back which is really what you want to do, then don't email him at all, pretend you are happy and you moved on. If you want to get over him, then take steps to move on, and don't look at your emails. If you keep playing this should I email back shouldn't I crap, its going to make this a lot harder on you, and much harder to move on. But you have heard this already. So just keep waiting for his emails all day every day.
Anyway, I deleted my ex's email and cleared it from my deleted items box. Makes it MUCH easier to not respond when it's not there staring you in the face, ya know.
You all told her not to do anything until he does email her and he finally did. What else is he suppose to say? I am not sticking up for him but he did ask how she was.
