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Old 06-10-2004, 10:34 AM   #1
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Damn, he just emailed me

I haven't read it yet though......

 
Old 06-10-2004, 11:18 AM   #2
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Re: Damn, he just emailed me

Don't do it!!! Just kidding -- do something rational, don't go with your "feelings"... I'm probably being nosey, but you did post on this public board after all, but you could read it & post it & get our advice... I guess you choosing to respond would depend on what the email says... BE STRONG!!

 
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Old 06-10-2004, 11:19 AM   #3
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Re: Damn, he just emailed me

He's just asking how my work week is going - kinda lame.

 
Old 06-10-2004, 11:19 AM   #4
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Re: Damn, he just emailed me

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I haven't read it yet though......
Well read the damn thing and tell us don't leave us hanging...

 
Old 06-10-2004, 11:20 AM   #5
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OK, thanks for sharing...

Email him back and tell him you are having a Great Week.
Do not add anything else to your email, let him wonder........

 
Old 06-10-2004, 11:24 AM   #6
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Ok... I wouldn't write back b/c I'd be afraid I'd be caught up in him again. It takes some self control, but if you don't response and he STILL emails you -- read the next one & take it from there. I would let him email me a few times before I responded. Then go from there...

 
Old 06-10-2004, 11:30 AM   #7
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Re: Damn, he just emailed me

I've resisted it for one hour now!

 
Old 06-10-2004, 11:31 AM   #8
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Re: Damn, he just emailed me

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He's just asking how my work week is going - kinda lame.

You call it lame but you are sitting at your desk all week waiting for him to email you.

I think your healing process has begun because to a lot of people they would be excited just for a "hi". He is gone beyond that asking about you, and you call it lame.....You go girl....Keep it up..."Let the Healing come"

 
Old 06-10-2004, 11:34 AM   #9
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Yay!!! one hour -- wonder how many more to go?? just don't think about it... you could always say "sorry, i was sooo busy i couldn't respond" or "i went out to lunch with this new guy i work with" haha...

 
Old 06-10-2004, 11:36 AM   #10
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Re: Damn, he just emailed me

By lame I just meant the contents of the email wasn't a big deal

 
Old 06-10-2004, 11:40 AM   #11
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It is kind of disappointing, only b/c you don't really not what to expect to read and most of the time it might not be exactly what you *want* to read/hear from them!! It's almost like he's trying to make things un-awkward or something... Just let it sit, wait for a few more emails -- if you don't respond, curiousity will get the best of him.

 
Old 06-10-2004, 11:47 AM   #12
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Re: Damn, he just emailed me

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By lame I just meant the contents of the email wasn't a big deal

It doesn't have to be a big deal...You have been waiting for this like a kid wanting to go to Disney Land.

He did it...He emailed you...So now take a deep breath and just respond to it. What can it hurt?? Is is still somewhat concerned and wants to know. He didn;t have to email you but he decided to.

You really need to find some closure to this though. The healing process take time and effort but you wont just let go. You may not admit it but deep down it sound like you want him back. He made his decision and now he is off. He has gone on with life and you need to do the same.

 
Old 06-10-2004, 11:51 AM   #13
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Re: Damn, he just emailed me

TOO FUNNY! The guy I was telling you abot (the "nonserious" guy) also just emailed me. I just got back from lunch and here's an email from him! Nothing major either. Just asking if we're on good terms now. I think I'm not gonna respond either. That's just really funny.

 
Old 06-10-2004, 11:54 AM   #14
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Re: Damn, he just emailed me

What a coincidence!

 
Old 06-10-2004, 12:00 PM   #15
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What a coincidence!
I know! I told you we're twins Anyway, I deleted my ex's email and cleared it from my deleted items box. Makes it MUCH easier to not respond when it's not there staring you in the face, ya know.

 
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