Do i give her another chance? - Relationship Health Message Board

xxmackxx · 11-24-2004, 08:25 PM

Ok, i have this girl who i have dated for 2 years and we get along so well and i love her more then anything, but we got into this big fight and stuff happened, so we broke up, a month later we start to talk again and we want to get back together so we did, i had like a hookup girl over that month who was kinda cool and she was my age. My girlfriend went on one date with a 28 year old teacher and shes 18, and they stayed out until 3am. So i got alittle grossed out and mad that she dated a guy that old. So when i tell her that she gets mad and crap then gives me this big speech about how we need to trust each other. We are both very jealous types, so she tells me never to talk to that girl again and i tell her to never talk to that guy again. So a week passes, then i find his number on her cell phone and see that she has been calling him and i want to know what to do.

eightball61 · 11-24-2004, 09:42 PM

Its never going to work under these conditions. I saw and responded to your last post in the Teen board about trust. These 2 people are legal but she is the student in high school and he is the teacher. There are rules a teacher can't do and one of them in many schools are not to get involved with students. This teacher can get fired but if you want back with her then you dont want to interfear with that unless you do is secrectively. I think for now its just best you move on. She is at the age where she wants to try new things and as you see this is one of them. I dont see any garentee that you both may work if you dated again. I would to be insecure about this situation.

Relationships to me should work as an " I do for you and you do for me" another words you stopped talking to this other girl and she broke a promise and called him. You can't work out a good relationship like this. Its best you just let her explore because you dont need to get caught up in this drama.

xxmackxx · 11-24-2004, 10:11 PM

eightball61, thanks alot for the replies this is the first time on these boards and first time explaining all this stuff to people. Really appreciate it.

singer1 · 11-24-2004, 10:24 PM

I would move on. It doesn't sound like it will work out for either one of you. Good Luck!

ana_27 · 11-25-2004, 04:56 AM

Hey! I take offense! 28 is not OLD