Re: What ways can you respark the marriage life?
hi there, i know what you mean.
my hubby and i were married on July 18, 04
i know we are newly weds but we have actually been together almost 3 years now. (and the bulk of that time we have been living together)
we have a 14 month old daughter and i am 15 weeks pregnant.
we too have a hard time with finding the spark.
one thing we have agreed on is sex, at least once a week no matter what. it puts him in a better mood and he is nicer to me all week, and i actually end up getting into it....LOL
i know it is so hard, especially if you have children to connect, but another thing we try to do is talk, about anything, everything. the other day he actually told me he enjoys listening to me. lol
we sit and talk to eachother when he gets home from work, we lay in bed and talk before we fall asleep...
and we play games together when we can, watch movies, tv shows.
we also go out to eat with our daughter once a week, we usually cant aford it, but we do it anyway. usually it isnt anything fancy, bob evans, or chinese food.....just another way to connect.
i think after being with a person for some time you kind of have to change your expectations.
you may not feel your heart leap when you kiss anymore, and thats okay because now you can sit and talk and not worry about what they think of you, instead of all the excitment you have comfort, true friendship.
DS Born: 5-04-2005