got rejected![madhatter] - Relationship Health Message Board

madhatter · 01-07-2005, 01:00 PM

Well,that woman i told you about,well,she told a co-worker that i'm an attractive,and nice guy,but she only wants to be friends.I'm sick of being alone,anyone out there single?

elatedgiraffe · 01-07-2005, 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by madhatter

Well,that woman i told you about,well,she told a co-worker that i'm an attractive,and nice guy,but she only wants to be friends.I'm sick of being alone,anyone out there single?

Urghhh...rejection sucks! Hang in there, you'll find her.

Ninispjc · 01-07-2005, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by madhatter

Well,that woman i told you about,well,she told a co-worker that i'm an attractive,and nice guy,but she only wants to be friends.I'm sick of being alone,anyone out there single?

Hmmmmm....Yes, I do believe we have a single person or two here!!

check out Rosie's thread about "Not Only is he just not that into me..." but in the meantime, yes, rejection stinks big time. Sorry you got the "just friends" thing. No one wants to hear that. Do your best to ride it out. Plan a fun time with your buds this weekend, and get back up on that saddle!

pcantona · 01-07-2005, 01:32 PM

Well friends is better than nothing right? From reading your other threads, she probably thinks that you are not over your EX yet and she probably does not want to be a "stand-in" for her. Give it some more months or maybe a year and when you are at the point where you can say that you have no feelings for her, then you are ready to find someone new. Also, everyone that finds you interesting and handsome might not want a relationship though.
Maybe they are just being nice and trying to be your friend and cheer you up.

heartlandguy · 01-07-2005, 03:16 PM

Too bad she's not looking for a relationship. However, if she is a friend, she might introduce you to some single friends of hers...

P.S. Since you didn't learn about her feelings directly, don't accept it as true until you hear it from her. You never know...