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Originally Posted by Makaveli01 I am becoming more and more annoyed with my GF. I tried not to get into this situation, but somehow I always do.
when begining a relationship i always like to talk to the girl a lot, and they usually do too, like for hours and hours on the phone daily!
well eventually this levels off at some point, with this one at 1 yr. There is absolutely nothing to talk about anymore and we constantly get at each others throat. i like her a lot and she likes me too, but i dont know what to do. its bad enough im in California and shes in New York, so its hard to see her, i only see her about once every 3 months. so i understand her wanting to be on the phone so much, but i think its killing our relationship.
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Hmmmm....you only see each other every three months, you live in sunny, beautiful, star-studded CA, and she lived in hustlin' bustlin' New York, and you have nothing to talk about? This would be a problem even if you lived in the same state and did all your talking in person. You say you like her a lot, but after a year, like a lot may not be enough to sustain a relationship, even when you get to see each other every day. Do you love her? This may be the problem. Could it be you're just not that into her? Does she still want to talk on the phone for literally hours and hours every single day? Like, from when you get home, through the dinner hour and up to the time you go to bed, every day, you're on the phone with her? If so, I can understand why you wouldn't want to be on the phone with anyone for that long, no matter how much you loved them. Or is it that she just wants to talk more than you do? If you no longer have the passion for her to want to talk to her, and you dont' really miss her all that much, and you don't have any immediate plans to be in the same state, then perhaps it's time to consider whether you really want to still be in this relationship.
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