| Re: I have a big problem and I need feeback ASAP
HHMmm..Well, this is just me so dont take offense, but I wouldnt have to kiss another guy just to make sure I really love my boyfriend. Kissing someone else cant tell u if you will be with your man for the rest of your life, as I think you said.
All three of you work together? How weird. Thats probably why your feeling really guilty. You lied to your boyfriend, and there is added pressure of will the other guy ever tell.
Well, as for if the feeling of guilt will ever go away, imo, is..it depends on the kind of person you are. If you have no conscious or can bury it away somewhere then yeah, itll go away really fast. But it seems thats its really eating you up, and you might feel better if you tell him, but you will really have to try to get ur boyfriend to understand your reasoning, and then go from there and take it one day at a time. The horrible thing is that ur still stuck working with him.
This is all me now, but if I were in your shoes..I would probably just get over it and go on. Sure you kissed someone else, you learned your lesson, will hopefully never do it again, you basically are punishing yourself for the mistake..again just forget about it and hope the guy doesnt say anything.
I kinda had a situation involving a good friend a guy that i didnt think she liked and sex. lets just say my friend still doesnt know about it.whats the point of risking 11 years of friendship for one night that meant nothing..thats just me
Last edited by erica082e; 03-17-2005 at 09:30 PM.
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