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Old 08-15-2005, 07:06 PM   #1
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Angry So frustrated ... with myself

I am so frustrated with myself right now. I have lots of work right now which is giving me a lot of stress, and I don't get to see my s.o. much (once every week or two - we've been together about 1 year)... Every time i DO see her, I always just get angry at her but I don't know why I can't do this because it's frustrating for her, and I am going to destroy a relationship with one of the most amazing women I've ever known.

I seriously can't control myself, and I really don't understand how I can do this to someone I love. It's not really a reason to get angry, but I always feel that when we are together she has something better to do than spend time with me, and these thoughts just set me off to being untrusting, angry, and/or jealous of her (part of this feeling stems from her loss of passion in the relationship).

Agh, I just don't know how to explain myself to her, and worst of all I have a fear she won't put up with me and will find someone else. How can I stop myself on a course of self-destruction? And how do I tell her this?

 
Old 08-15-2005, 07:32 PM   #2
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Re: So frustrated ... with myself

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Originally Posted by RockMyBoat
I am so frustrated with myself right now. I have lots of work right now which is giving me a lot of stress, and I don't get to see my s.o. much (once every week or two - we've been together about 1 year)... Every time i DO see her, I always just get angry at her but I don't know why I can't do this because it's frustrating for her, and I am going to destroy a relationship with one of the most amazing women I've ever known.

I seriously can't control myself, and I really don't understand how I can do this to someone I love. It's not really a reason to get angry, but I always feel that when we are together she has something better to do than spend time with me, and these thoughts just set me off to being untrusting, angry, and/or jealous of her (part of this feeling stems from her loss of passion in the relationship).

Agh, I just don't know how to explain myself to her, and worst of all I have a fear she won't put up with me and will find someone else. How can I stop myself on a course of self-destruction? And how do I tell her this?
YOu must have some underlying fears of intimacy...it's nothing new. It happens to the best of us. When we start to feel close to our significant other, it tends to overwhelm us. Talk to her and tell her how you feel. I'm sure if she loves you she will understand. Good luck!

 
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Old 08-15-2005, 07:45 PM   #3
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Re: So frustrated ... with myself

Fears of intimacy? I don't understand what you mean... As in, emotional intimacy?

 
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