should i have said this?
Hi group! Well,my ex's daughter,who i raised for 8 yrs,has a birthday comming up,so i called a friend of ours to ask if i could drop a card off,she said sure.I've told you's a while back how she's[the x] been driving by on fridays[going way out of her way to do so] anyway,the friend i called,wasn't home,but guess who answered the phone? yep,the x! Didn't talk,actually,i acted as though i didn't know who it was,and left a message[the friend called back in 5 min.] so the friend asked how i was doing,i said great[im ok] but i lied and said i'm moving out of state,thinking by saying that,the x won't come around. I'm still hurting over our break-up,and my philosaphy is that if i don't see,or talk to her,it will help with the pain.