Re: Am I just your 'baby's daddy?'
Are you sure the baby is yours?
I know that sounds rude, but insist on a paternity test immediatly upon the birth of the baby. Not for her, but for you. Because if she does start into another relationship you will want to be able to see your baby, right? You might need to get a lawyer and ask for joint custody, but you'll need to prove the baby is yours. I say this because......
I had a friend who loved his infant son like crazy!!! His girlfriend decided she wanted to end their relationship. He told her that he wanted their son 1/2 the time and she let him take the baby on weekends until the child got to be about 12 months old. Then she dropped a bomb, the little boy wasn't even my friend's child and she had moved in with the real father. My poor friend was devastated! This is a true story!!!
So please, just protect yourself here!
Hopefully, your story will end much happier and she will come around.