Originally Posted by SophiaM
Well, I think you're forgetting that it's not enough if a woman is "worthy" of being long-term/wife material. One other extremely important factor is that the man is looking for a long-term relationship at the time. If he's not in the general mindset of finding someone for long-term, he could meet the most amazing woman in the world and still not want to marry her or make a commitment.
That is exactly what I wanted to say, Sophia.
If a woman confuses the looks of love and lust in a man's eyes, she may pick the wrong type of guy every time. Sorry, but I can't help you in identifying the different looks since I don't look deeply into men's eyes...
The best advice I can offer is that a guy who is interested in a long-term relationship won't rush a woman that interests him into a physical relationship before she is ready. Players, on the other hand, always seem to rush the romance along to get what they want.