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Old 08-17-2005, 10:08 AM   #1
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To men on the board. What does a woman have to have so that a man would want a long term relationship or marriage with her and not just sex. what does the woman have to be worthy of?.

 
Old 08-17-2005, 12:12 PM   #2
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To answer your question, what she should have is:
1. Femininity
2. Self-respect
3. Intelligence
4. Caring
5. Fidelity
6. Attractiveness
7. Ability to communicate on many levels.
8. Ability to be able to "cook something in the oven rather than ordering a pizza".
9.Not to hold a grudge.
10. To want to make a relationship succeed and know that it requires "work".
11. To be able to love and be loved.
12. To know that it is more important to "groom" your inside on a daily basis just as much if not more so to exercise and cosmetics.
13 and more.........

 
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Old 08-17-2005, 01:26 PM   #3
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Too bad I fit in to the majority of those categories and can't seem to find anyone but the guys that want one thing. hahahaha

 
Old 08-17-2005, 01:33 PM   #4
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Well, I think you're forgetting that it's not enough if a woman is "worthy" of being long-term/wife material. One other extremely important factor is that the man is looking for a long-term relationship at the time. If he's not in the general mindset of finding someone for long-term, he could meet the most amazing woman in the world and still not want to marry her or make a commitment.

 
Old 08-17-2005, 01:51 PM   #5
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Originally Posted by SophiaM
Well, I think you're forgetting that it's not enough if a woman is "worthy" of being long-term/wife material. One other extremely important factor is that the man is looking for a long-term relationship at the time. If he's not in the general mindset of finding someone for long-term, he could meet the most amazing woman in the world and still not want to marry her or make a commitment.
That is exactly what I wanted to say, Sophia.

If a woman confuses the looks of love and lust in a man's eyes, she may pick the wrong type of guy every time. Sorry, but I can't help you in identifying the different looks since I don't look deeply into men's eyes... The best advice I can offer is that a guy who is interested in a long-term relationship won't rush a woman that interests him into a physical relationship before she is ready. Players, on the other hand, always seem to rush the romance along to get what they want.

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