ok, not to bring up the same old topic again, but, there's this girl in my sport club that i really fancy..she's really nice, talkative, friendly, really, really attractive, and i always feel like i just want to grab her and give her a nice big wet one..
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anyway, this got me thinking...you women really have your options out there..i know, i know, you still insist that its not easy to find a good guy but seriously, this girl is the only girl that comes regularly and all the guys, myself included, nice, intelligent, highly educated, respectful, humourous, at the very least average looking, guys. this girl has options. all she has to do is pick a target. there's no way that she can possibly say that NOT ONE SINGLE one of us interest her. look at the numbers: 1 girl, 10-12 guys. so i solved your problems...
. find a sport you're interested in, join the club and INSTANT pool of guys to choose from. easy. that's my suggestion.
i always see this. there's always a situation where there is tons of guys and not enough girls. is there anything that girls like to do?? i mean, are you guys passionate about anything at all?? a sport, or activity, or craft, or something...anything??? i want to find an activity that has interaction, that is female dominated. i tried yoga class, not to meet girls but because i was interested. there were tons of girls but no interaction. so thats my first question: what is such an activity for me to get involved in???
oh, minor detail: this girl i mentioned above is a different race than me and i've always been really really scared to make a play for someone that is not my race. when its my race, i'm confident and its easy but i really am attracted to someone REGARDLESS OF RACE. i never know how to handle the situation or know whether the girl is open to things like that..not every girl is, especially in a black/white situation. so that's my other question: how do i handle this???
so...what do you think?????????
